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I am the voice of Truly Madly Sassy and currently reside in Northeast Tennessee with my dog Snickers. I’m a full-time mental health advocate, a most-of-the-time writer, a part-time mermaid, and a self-proclaimed princess. I’m a lover of all things chocolate, a staunch Starbucks addict, a sap for Rumi’s poetry, and a tried-and-true believer in happily ever after.
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Thank you so much for your comment!
You said you regret not having children and I think you should seriously consider adopting. You would be practically saving a life (or more) because you would be offering a second chance to a child that otherwise may not get it. And I can tell you from personal experience that adopted kids are the best and might love you more than your own kids! I’ve always been pro adoption; have adopted my 2 dogs and then I adopted 2 kids and both were the best decisions ever!
“Hi Julia! I’ve considered adopting, but I’m getting older and less patient. However, that’s not to say it’s not in the cards. I absolutely adore children…mostly haha. Thanks for commenting on TMS!”
If anyone has lived life without regrets then I really want to know their secret.
Me too!!!! 🙂
Rob sums up how my dad used to feel. He worked until the week he passed away and only recently have I realized the sacrifices he made for our family. And I regret not making more time for him.
“We never, ever know…”
“I think everyone has regrets and things they wish they could “”do-over”” differently. I definitely do, though at the same time, I really love the life I have now, and though I have regrets, I don’t know whether I would still be in the same situation if I was to have done things differently in my past. And, perhaps, if I did things differently I would still have a life I love, but I don’t think it would be the same life I have now, and that thought makes me sad. So yes, I definitely have regrets – some regrets that even upset me or make me feel ashamed, and I think most people do have these regrets. But, I don’t think there is any point focusing on these regrets, because a) we can’t change them, and b) at the end of the day, they contributed to who we are today. All we can do is learn from our regrets and our mistakes, so we don’t make the same ones again.”
“I like how you said you might still have a life you love if you’d done things differently, but that it wouldn’t be the same life you have now. That’s perspective right there, Kelly! Glad to see you again! Come back soon!”
Show me a person who says they have no regrets and I’ll show you a person who has not lived. I love your blog!
Ha! Truer words have never been spoken!
“I could picture my thousand regrets upon reading through this post. I’ve so many of them (regrets). But each time I recall it makes me so sad and the pains seem unbearable. I just want to let go. I’m glad I read through this post, it just gave me the courage that I’m not alone on this path and I can still move on with my life. Thanks”
“None of us are alone, Esther, and I’d rather learn how to have less regrets as each day passes. Sometimes it takes a village to be courageous…make sure you have a good support system <3 Thanks for your comment!"
So interesting to read about other people’s regrets. Helps me to try and not make similar mistakes. Sometimes in relationships it gets tricky not to act all weird and do things that are out of character or do something that you regret.
“I think we all have them, ya know? Thanks for stopping in, Lou!”
“Sometimes you make choices that you regret later, but everyone makes mistakes. The best thing to do is learn from your mistake and don’t make the same choice twice.”
“Oh Ricky, I’ve been known to make the same mistake over and over and over again! One day, perhaps, I’ll learn! Thanks for stopping in! Always love hearing from you!”
Time is the most valuable thing and regrets spoil this most valuable asset. Leave your regrets aside and move on. Be confident and face the music of life boldly!
“This post was like reading a page out of my own diary. Not only did it hit home, but it’s refreshing to see I’m no the only one. There are so many things that I regret and wish I could change…one thing happened just today. Even though I can’t go back and change anything, I know it’s all shaping who I am supposed to be in the future.”
“Yes, Sarah, it reminds of the “”character building”” I mentioned. Sometimes, I’m just like ‘what the what?!’ — thanks for your comment!”
“regrets give you nothing but mental stress. Don’t ever recall them. Put them off and lend a happy n content life.
“At one time, I thought I had many regrets. When you have trouble with anxiety, it is easy to pin point things that you would have liked to do differently. The thing is, had I done these things different – there is a good chance I would have never met my husband. While I would have loved things to start differently and still end up with him, I don’t regret anything. I am married to my best friend. :)”
“Sometimes, unanswered prayers lead us to greater things that are for our highest good. Thanks for your comment, Britanica!”
“Learning from regrets and failure is the common attribute all successful people have in common.
“I believe I read this when it was first written, and back then, I too was going through some major “”stuff”” lol.:-)I recall how impactful this piece was and how intense it was because of it’s unshaking truth. Even from a male perspective, it did not matter. It is meant for us all. Then, last night, a good friend of mine from work tells me about this wonderful article she just read. Well, she sends me the link, and it’s THIS same article! I could have cried…Anyway, I read it again to reabsorb it, and once again the timing is spot on as I am now going through some other transformations. We’re always evolving aren’t we? So, I sent it to a few other friends who I know would benefit from reading it too.I have to say that from all the amazing things that I read: books, magazines, articles, et al, THIS is one of the best.Thank you so much for writing it!”
Well thank you Emma! What a compliment! Glad you and your friends are enjoying the blog!
“Kristi, I think this is a very important piece. I always believe that when we reflect honestly and openly, it gives others courage to do the same.”
Courage is becoming one of my favorite words after 29 (ahem) years of life. Thanks for stopping in Sarah. I always enjoy your comments!
“This is an interesting post. I had to really think if I regret anything in my life and I regret very few things like not studying at university sooner, and not travelling more, and being reckless with money but when I look at my life now, I am so in love with it and I am happy with who I am and the people in my life so I wouldn’t change a thing. I have had terrible experiences happen to me but I don’t have any regrets on them because they truely have made me into the strong woman I am today. I am thankful for all my life experiences. The good and the bad.”
“Mia, love your insight. Keep on keepin’ on!”
I just found your blog on facebook and I’ve shared your page with all my friends! We are loving it!
“Ha! Well thanks, Brandy! Glad y’all are enjoying the blog! Boy, that’s a lot of pressure to make sure I keep writing good stuff haha! Just kidding 🙂 I hope you’ll stick around!”
Love what everyone had to say! xoxoxo
Me too! My friends rock! I love all of you BIG!
“I also don’t know how people live without regrets. It is part of human life! I think your friends are rather cool too. I’ve been following your blog for awhile now, and I always thoroughly enjoy it when you use their pictures and what they say. It just makes things more real and as a blogger myself, I know how it is with readers: they want to know EVERYTHING about us and they eat it up when we allow them a glimpse into our personal lives. To be so new to blogging, you’ve got it down pat. Kudos to you! I’ll be back!”
“Thank you, Candice! I’m having fun with it. Truly. And I have yet to come across someone who doesn’t have regrets. Thanks for commenting and for following!”
“Wow! This is dead on! Especially about not valuing yourself and knowing your worth. And, I have been screaming to anyone who would listen…people will only treat you poorly if you allow it. You teach them how to treat you and they either change or leave. Either way, you win!”
“I couldn’t agree more, Susan! My experience has been that they’d rather leave than change, but like you said, it’s a win/win! Thanks for commenting!”
Nailed it!